Post Suspenders

Imperfectly seeking God

My devotional life has had its ups and downs.

As a child, our family tried to gather around the living room each evening to read the Bible, sing, and pray. Sometimes we managed. Other times we didn’t. Getting together for family worship each night is good, but we struggled to make it stick.

As I grew older, I looked for ways to incorporate a habit of daily worship. I wanted to spend time in prayer and reading scripture. I’d been told all the right reasons to do it. And I tried, out of sheer force of will, to make it happen from a sense of obligation. But I was missing the point behind it all.

I haven’t even come close to figuring this out—that journey will consume the rest of my life and eternity beyond—but in recent years my perspective has shifted. Instead of approaching worship out of a sense an obligation, an expectation, or a requirement from an ever-watching God, I now worship out of a longing for closeness. I look for a way to fill the emptiness in my own soul with thoughts beyond this earth.

In the mornings, I turn heavenward because I want connection with my friend, my Creator, my Savior. It’s no longer about duty. It’s about something much deeper. My shift only came when I realized God isn’t forcing anything. He doesn’t coerce, he doesn’t demand. Instead of forcing, he asks. Instead of trying to catch us in doing something wrong (that’s Satan’s job), He wishes only joy and love for us. Realizing that I didn’t have to do anything made me want to do something.

So what does my personal devotional life look like today? It’s messy—because I’m messy. It’s broken—because I’m imperfect. But each day, I look for glimpses of Christ’s love, beauty in His word, and in that seeking, I’m sometimes finding it. Some days, my worship is reading just a few verses. Other times, it’s crying out to God in frustration. Sometimes, it’s putting an AirPod in one ear while I’m half-asleep, and listening to a few minutes of a sermon. Sometimes, it’s urgently studying a topic because I’ll be trying to teach it the next morning in Trailblazers. It’s not perfect, but in all of this, I find myself seeking after a Savior.

In Sabbath School, we talked about Jesus’ invitation to take our burdens and come alongside Him. “Come to Me, all who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take My yoke upon you and learn from Me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For My yoke is comfortable, and My burden is light.” Matthew 11:28-30 NASV.

My hope is that you’ll find that joy, that connection, that desire to come closer to Jesus. Have I figured it out? Not at all. I question everything about my walk with Christ daily. I feel insufficient, broken, not enough. But I believe in claiming God’s promises and trusting that He loves us more than I love my own children. Coming to our Savior to worship of our own freewill—that’s what it means to be a follower of Christ.